Bullying

 


Bullying comes in different forms. It is important that we familiarise ourselves with acceptable and unacceptable socialising manners so that we may avoid being bullies. Some people are aware of their offending behaviour (bullying tendencies) while others are genuinely unaware. Knowing types of bullying will help us identify and choose our actions towards other people. 

6 types of bullying: (Ref: Gordon & Morin 2019)


  • Physical Bullying (physical bullying includes kicking, hitting, punching, slapping, shoving, and other physical attacks).
  • Verbal Bullying (verbal bullying uses words, statements, and name-calling to over-power the victim and also have control over them).

  • Relational Aggression (sometimes referred to as emotional bullying, relational aggression is a type of social manipulation where people try to hurt or sabotage others' social standing).

  • Cyberbullying (cyberbullying includes posting hurtful images (pics), making online threats, and sending hurtful emails or texts).

  • Sexual Bullying (Sexual bullying consists of repeated, harmful, and humiliating actions that target a person sexually. Examples include sexual name-calling, crude comments, vulgar gestures, uninvited touching, sexual propositioning, and pornographic materials).

  • Prejudicial Bullying (Prejudicial bullying is based on prejudices people have toward people of different races, religions, or sexual orientations).

Can I be in trouble for bullying others in South Africa? 


South Africa has various Acts such as the School Governing Act, the Children’s Act (38 of 2005), and the constitution of South Africa which protects the rights and dignity of all people living in South Africa. Violating these Acts may result in serious consequences. Moreover; we need to treat each other with the love and respect we desire.  If you find yourself practicing one of these above-mentioned types of bullying, it is time to stop!


NYDO stands against bullying and condemns bullying behaviour; We say no to bullying! Be responsible with your words and deeds. Show the love and respect towards others and see if it will not be reciprocated!


Article sources:

Gordon, S & Morin, A. 2019. The Different Types of Bullying Parents Should Watch For 

https://www.verywellfamily.com/types-of-bullying-parents-should-know-about-4153882

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